Week 5 — Silence

Week 5 — Silence

Hello MKMMAers, world, etc. whoever is out there!

I’ve realized this week that there is a connection between the Og Mandino chapter 9 and the homework this week of being the observer.  It is not loving to constantly give my opinion on everything to everyone!  I believe I learned this habit from my mother, who is super opinionated and sure that she is right.  I sat down with a new friend for coffee yesterday and as we talked for a couple of hours, I found myself biting my tongue again and again.  Listening and not interjecting my opinion is hard work!  I slipped up a couple of times but did not get upset, I just observed what had happened.  My husband said he had noticed I was not as critical and opinionated this week so I must have been doing better than I thought!  I also realized that is it much easier not to have an opinion in terms of mental effort/brainwork.  Takes the pressure off when you can just listen to the other person instead of formulating an opinion about what they are saying.  I will continue this habit! Now if only I could teach it to my mother…LOL.

By |2015-10-30T02:12:01+00:00October 30th, 2015|Uncategorized|3 Comments

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  1. mknancy October 31, 2015 at 2:52 am - Reply

    Great progress in just a few short days! It does take the pressure off when we give no opinions!

  2. Kishahlom October 31, 2015 at 7:41 am - Reply

    Haha!
    This post is my experience exactly (except I am not married)
    I feel you.

    Maybe your mother will do the MKMMA one day.
    I’m so grateful mine is!

    • Lesley Carmody October 31, 2015 at 3:42 pm - Reply

      Yes it’s so interesting when I read the other blogs how similar they are to what I am feeling … Thank you for your comment !

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